wiww #169

Linking up yet again with Lindsey. She started this whole fun-ness to get herself out of yoga pants as a homeschool mom of littles.  Now it has morphed in to a fun community sharing ideas each week.

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These are actually not just from this past week but were random pictures on my phone from the last two months where I thought, “Hm, if I do another WIWW post, I’ll use this outfit.”  Here goes!


Sweatshirt – Lou & Gray (last year) // Scarf – Charming Charlie’s (old) // Jeans – Kut from the Kloth at Nordstrom Rack and they’ve discontinued the Katy style – big boohoo from me because I LOVE them // Flats – my continued addiction with flats from Lucky Brand (you can find good prices on that brand at Nordstrom Rack)

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Um, color theme much, Kristin?

Peplum top – Elegantees taupe Rebecca purchased at The Flourish Market // Jeans – see above // Flats – Millies from The Root Collective (yes, that’s a link where you’ll receive 10% off your order and I get $10 store credit!!!) // Long tank – Target


My LuLaRoe addiction continues with these fun butter leggings I won from LuLaRoe consultant JJ Friberg.  To tone them down I wore them with a denim dress from Old Navy (I can’t find it online to link).

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Black top – Asha (I think) from Elegantees purchased at The Flourish Market // Jeans – old Madewell I’m thankful I could squeeze in to // necklace – Noonday purchased from Ambassador Emily Sexton.

Two random thoughts: first, I’m really ready to be done with braces in four weeks and resume wearing lipstick and second, notice all the background changes in my pictures? I did a bathroom purge last weekend.  Oh yes, I tossed (took to Origins for recycling) bottles and sprays that weren’t empty because I hadn’t used them in months and didn’t love them!


2 new favorites

I teased this on Instagram the other day…. bacon jam.  Law, y’all. My friends Merideth and Aimee have mentioned this goodness before after food swaps. I’ve drooled from afar and have pinned recipes. So, when I saw it at Trader Joe’s and knew I could skip the steps in making it, I grabbed a jar.  Normal me would put this in the pantry and save it.  Adventurous me texted Merideth on Sunday with an SOS of “what the heck do I do with this stuff???” Her response? “Do this – sharp cheddar, avocado, bacon jam, fried egg grilled cheese. Doooo itttt.”  I did.


I was out of bread but found some naan in the freezer which worked quite well.  Not wanting the avocado to get hot and mushy, I fried the egg, removed it from the pan, and then placed the bread open faced (one with cheese and the other with the jam) in the pan and topped with a glass lid to help the melting process. Then remove both pieces from the pan and add the egg and sliced avocado. Sit down and prepare to enjoy one of the yummiest sandwiches ever.


I think I’ll try it on scrambled eggs next time or maybe even on a burger!


Next favorite is actually a brand and a person.  Way back in November I shopped through a Pop Up Market at Sola in Raleigh. I love walking through markets like that where craftspeople are right there to share their home/handmade goods.


I was drawn to Lizzie and the Lo & Behold table of lovely body products.  For Christmas gifts this year I considered making them myself for friends. Then I saw hers and decided to support a local business and save myself some time – doesn’t mean I don’t love my friends and family any less. Well, I gave some of her goodies as gifts but got nothing for myself and finally did last week at yet another Pop Up Market! Lizzie puts a ton of TLC in to her products and she ships too.  :-)

The next product of hers I want to try is the Lavender and Rosemary Lip Balm. It sells out fast and I keep missing it!

As usual, I’d love to hear about any of your new finds or favorites.

Are you Looking for Lovely?

Have you ever felt like you were reading your own journal but someone else was the author? Someone who is more of a feeler than you?  Well, that’s how I felt from page 1 of Annie Downs‘ book Looking for Lovely. In fact, I was sort of mad at her for having read my journal and living my same life 9 years later (sub NASCAR for soccer).  I’m kidding, I wasn’t mad at her but there’s just some sort of relief that comes from reading someone’s words and realizing you aren’t alone. I’m not alone!


Part of me wants to fill this post with quotes from the book and part of me wants to just let it lie so you can enjoy it yourself.

After finishing her book yesterday morning, I wanted to hear her voice.  Having met Annie At The White Barn last summer, I knew her voice and I read her book with her voice in my head. Head over to this podcast from April 1st to learn more about Annie.


I’ve had the privilege to be on yet another book launch team. When done well, they are so much fun and the two I’ve done have been done well!



spring has sprung

So, I took this picture of my dinner tonight and thought, “Hm, I can’t post ANOTHER food photo on Instagram.”


Oh yeah, that blog! The good ol days when I did things like post recipes and fun stuff a few times a week.  Instagram really is a fun little microblogging world and my for real blogging has slacked of significantly since IG started but I miss it!

So, back to that dinner.  Isn’t it the picture of spring? My plan was to give credit to Melissa D’Arabian.  See her recipe below? I’ve steamed my second favorite vegetable for a good 30+ years so this method was new to me.  I’m hooked!  It’s delicious! Don’t do it with thick stalks.  Let’s be honest, thick stalk asparagus just isn’t that good anyway. Any other Melissa fans out there? I really miss her Ten Dollar Dinners show on the Food Network.


And since it was on my phone, one more dinner idea. About two years ago my friend Mason introduced me to simmer sauces.  She made a yummy dinner when I was visiting of chicken and broccoli and a yummy tika masala pre-made sauce.  I had blown right by these at the grocery store.  Before you snub your nose and tell me you make everything from scratch, sometimes you just have to take shortcuts and it’s OK.


This was step two in my Green Curry dinner (and lunch for the next few days) yesterday. Cut up and brown some chicken in olive oil.  Add S&P and cook through. Add in whatever cooked vegetables you have on hand.  Well, the carrots were raw.  The broccoli was cooked frozen broccoli and the peas were leftovers from dinner a few weeks ago I had frozen because I was leaving town. You really could add anything you like. The last step is to add the sauce and simmer. I used Trader Joe’s Green Curry sauce for this meal and sloshed the jar with some water to clean it out and thin out the sauce a bit.

Happy spring and happy spring veggies!!!

jtb’s small batch granola

Have you made granola at home? It’s delicious but most recipes make enough for a family of 6. I just can’t eat granola three meals a day for a week – well, I probably could but I shouldn’t.

Since this recipe is in my oven for the second time this week, I thought it a good time to share. Joy the Baker is one of my favorite blogs. I’ve mentioned her Sunday posts before. Last week she posted this small batch granola recipe and I’m hooked.


This is the batch I made on Tuesday. I didn’t have coconut but I did add dried cherries and TJ’s chocolate chunks. While I loved the taste of the cherries, they were pretty chewy and I currently have braces so not a great choice. I love the chocolate chunks but they got a bit too melty (thus her recommended nibs). Still, this tasted so good!


Today I skipped the cherries and added cranberries, coconut, cocoa nibs, and ginger.

For over 20 years I’ve known ‘acts of service’ and ‘words of affirmation’ are my love languages but I think Chapman needs to add ‘toasted almonds’ as a sixth love language.  Melt my heart with those treats.

two new favorites

Y’all tell me you like these ‘favorites’ posts.  In fact, they are some of my favorites of bloggers I follow!  These two favorites (have I overused that word yet?) come from other bloggers’ recommendations.  AKA, reading blogs makes me spend money but I also save money learning about great deals!


Before Christmas Myquillyn posted about The Bouqs. I had every intention or placing an order but didn’t.  THEN a few weeks ago Emily posted about The Bouqs! After seeing Emily’s post a friend came to mind I thought might enjoy some flowers delivered to her door.  I mean, who doesn’t love that?!?!?

Exploring their site was a joy.  It is clean and simple and they carry some of the most beautiful flowers I’ve ever seen. These aren’t your typical carnations with ferns.


These two photos are from the friend I sent my order to.  Aren’t they gorgeous? I haven’t seen these colors before.  Sigh, maybe I’ll send some to myself? I’m a firm believer in having fresh flowers around at all times.  Thank you, Trader Joe’s.

If you use this link (or the ones above) you’ll get $10 off your first order!  And they’ll give me a little referral credit as well.  I didn’t post about this until I was sure of their quality – though Emily and Myquillyn’s recommendations are pretty dern reliable.

Now on to a totally unrelated favorite.  Makeup brush cleaner.  Yep.


Last week in Kate’s monthly favorites video she mentioned a Japonesque brush cleaner. I clicked on her link, read reviews, and went on with my day.  Later in the week I was placing a Sephora order online – because free shipping plus 8% ebates on items I always use!  8%!!! I looked for that magical brush cleaner and didn’t even see the brand.  Duh, Kate said it came from Ulta.  I digress. In my inability to locate it, the Sephora brand popped up in the search. Of course it did.  I got the small travel size (yeah, because I clean my makeup brushes when I travel?) because the regular wasn’t in stock.  Y’all, I love this magical little brick of whatever it is.  I’ve used purity cleaner for years on my brushes and it doesn’t hold a candle.  My brushes are like new and the stuff that came out was pretty gross.  So much pigment.

Please share any new favorites you have!

hey, it works!

My friend Ansley pinned this miracle cleaner on Pinterest.


After gutting my shower area in my master bathroom a couple of years ago, I have battled to keep that thing clean. I tried every cleaner on the “recommended list” and then went off list.  I have tried non-toxic, very toxic, bleach, vinegar mixtures, Norwex paste and/or cloths, and more.  Nothing would remove the soap scum.  NOTHING.

Until this concoction! The floor of my shower hasn’t been this squeaky (literally) clean since the day it was installed.

Disclaimer: this did absolutely nothing for the little sneaky mold spots in the grout.  Anyone else hate those? I’ve resorted to q-tip soaked bleach trying to make those go away.  I squeegee and wipe down my shower every day.  They still appear and grow.  Anyone have a special trick for those monsters?

pretty women

As I flipped channels (how 1970’s do I sound, “flipped”?) while cooking dinner last night, I stumbled upon Pretty Woman. Oh, the memories flooded in. 26 years later and that movie is still a favorite.

Now, to share a few rambly thoughts that hit me while watching in 2016.  Nothing deep or theological here, my friends.  Just thoughts.

Rescue the beauty

“Rescue the beauty” was a concept Staci Eldredge wrote about a decade ago. I didn’t agree with much of her writing but this concept has stuck. I can’t speak for all women BUT I daresay there isn’t a woman alive who I think most women resonate with this concept. We long to have someone defend us, pursue us, stick up for us.


This scene made me think of that concept. Now, I’m not a scantily clad prostitute shopping Rodeo Drive, but I have experienced the hurt of rejection. Hasn’t everyone? Most women my age can quote this scene and the one following: “big mistake, huge!” Edward heard of her plight the day before and marched in to set things straight without thought to his reputation. Sigh.

Long discussions with the guys of H4

All four years of college, a group of us hung out.  By our sophomore year, some of the guys moved off campus to an apartment – unit H4. Around that same time, we girls watched Pretty Woman on repeat.  Well, repeat after rewinding the VHS tape. We had many long discussions over this movie.  How could girls who were walking with Jesus watch a movie about a prostitute???  How could we enjoy it? We did and we did.

I’m thankful that they cared about what went in to our eyes and minds but for the love.  Off to read the book of Hosea in the bible and Pygmalion (you know, the basis for all our favorite RomComs).

“She rescued him right back”


Gah! Edward conquers his fear of heights, climbs the fire escape, and rescues his beauty! Vivian finished the fairytale by rescuing him right back.  Who doesn’t love this scene? “What’s yo dream?!?”

Rambly thoughts over.

wiww #168

So, I never posted a WIWW in the entire year of 2015.  Hm. I’m posting this week simply because I have a few things I love and want to share with you.

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If you are new to WIWW, it’s a link up with Lindsey from The Pleated Poppy. It used to be a link up of women who needed motivation to get out of their comfies on a daily basis.  Now it is just fun to share ideas!


I took that photo up there to send to my LuLaRoe consultant to let her know I adore my new leggings.  I will direct you to Lauren for days if you are interested in the softest clothes ever.  BUT what I want to share from this picture are my flats from The Root Collective.  I had forgotten how incredibly comfortable leather-soled shoes are.  Most of my flats are from Target and they are completely fine but these are so much more comfortable and I know they’ll last for year.  They also have a story of ethically-made products.  My friend Molly wrote about it here.

The super generous folks at The Root Collective have offered a 10% discount to you!  Use this link to head over and browse the products and read their story.  Otto just might make your next pair of shoes!

I first learned of both of these companies at our fashion show last April.


Jeans and oxford:  Madewell

Sweater: Zara

Loafers – Target

all at least a year ago


Teal Aran sweater:  a gift from my mom from a little town in Ireland

Shirt: LuLaRoe Randy (you can’t see the fun floral sleeves in this baseball-style top)

Orange cords: NYDJ from Nordstrom Rack

Booties: Lucky Brand – y’all, these are my third pair of Lucky shoes and they are REALLY comfortable. You can find them on sale and at Nordstrom Rack.


Poncho: Sample House in Dallas – finally cold enough to wear!

Booties: same as above but worn the way you are supposed to wear them – doesn’t work so well with those orange cords

Flippy outty hair: how God made me – just sign me up for Mary Tyler Moore or That Girl